WHAT I LEARNT ABOUT LONELINESS
Loneliness is a universal feeling but there are experiences of loneliness that are unique to gay men. I recently published a post about being 34, single and lonely to which I received an overwhelming...
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MEN OF DISTINCTION: KARL LAGERFELD
It has just been announced that Karl Lagerfeld, the iconic German fashion designer, has died. He was a colourful character whose creative vision turned around the fate of fashion house Chanel. I first...
View ArticleTRYING GAY DATING APPS
I’m giving gay dating apps one more shot but this time I’m applying a strategic method to hopefully find love. I’m also going into this experiment with an open mind, shifting my intentions slightly to...
View ArticleTRYING GAY DATING APPS: PART TWO
My hunt for Prince Charming on gay dating apps is in full swing but I think I may have overcommitted…How many conversations can I have at once across Grindr, Chappy, Match, Hinge and Tinder?
View ArticleMY FIRST DATE FROM A GAY DATING APP
I finally met someone off of a gay dating app who made it through my five phase filtering system. Now don’t be fooled by the headline, I have indeed met people off gay dating apps in the past, however...
View ArticleMODERN GAY SPIRITUALITY
I often talk about gay issues and my gay identity but rarely do I touch on the spiritual side of life. There are so many facets to who we are, beyond our sexuality. My spirituality is one of these...
View ArticleGay Pride: The two things that upset me the most.
It’s the most colourful time of the year – it’s gay Pride in Sydney or as it’s locally called, ‘Mardi Gras’. A great time to celebrate the LGBTQI+ community and to stand proud with friends, family and...
View ArticleGay Friendships: Why they're so important
Growing up I didn’t have any gay friends. My closest friends were girls and I naturally gravitated towards them. You can imagine my anxiety during those times at school when boys and girls would be...
View ArticleGAY DATING ADVICE: I MET SOMEONE
After a string of lacklustre dates in 2019, I was becoming somewhat jaded by romance. That’s until I met someone special while I was in Sydney over Christmas and New Years. Although short, what I...
View ArticleGay sex advice
Am I having enough sex? Should I be having more? Or less? Should I be promiscuous while I’m young? Should I be having more adventurous sex? All these questions constantly go round and round in my...
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